[ SECRET POST #3467 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3467 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Epic Rap Battles of History, Ben Atha, Ivan Campo]


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03. [SPOILERS for Game of Thrones]




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04. [SPOILERS for Orange is the New Black season 4]



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05. [WARNING for abuse]



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06. [WARNING for discussion of abortion]



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07. [WARNING for incest]

















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Comments

Re: Questions & Advice

[(Anonymous)]

Being considered physically attractive in general isn't important to me. The possibility of someone finding me physically attractive is, because (a) I would like to be in a relationship and (b) it generally seems to me - and I know that this is a contested point - that some basic level of physical attractiveness is quite important there.

SA

[(Anonymous)]

SA

and the question comes up in general because of the importance of, you know, confidence and self-image in pursuing that sort of thing

also I want to be clear that I do not always talk like this

Re: SA

[(Anonymous)]

Yeah, I'm a believer in confidence and good self-image being a big part of attractiveness, but I know you've probably heard it a million times already. So I'll just quote RuPaul: If you can't love yourself, how in the hell you gonna love somebody else?

Re: SA

[(Anonymous)]

I agree with the sentiment but I also feel like that's basically exactly the question that I'm asking here

Re: SA

[(Anonymous)]

That RuPaul quote is such crap because when I DID love myself and thought I was pretty NO ONE I wanted ever wanted me in return or thought I was attractive-looking enough for them.

Re: SA

[(Anonymous)]

OK

Re: SA

[(Anonymous)]

This. One of my best friends is not what you would consider conventionally attractive, yet she never fails to come home from a bar with numbers from guys because she's confident and secure in herself and that makes her attractive.