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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-07-01 06:41 pm

[ SECRET POST #3467 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3467 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Epic Rap Battles of History, Ben Atha, Ivan Campo]


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03. [SPOILERS for Game of Thrones]




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04. [SPOILERS for Orange is the New Black season 4]



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05. [WARNING for abuse]



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06. [WARNING for discussion of abortion]



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07. [WARNING for incest]

















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Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 - too big (spoilers) ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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Re: Questions & Advice

(Anonymous) 2016-07-02 03:33 am (UTC)(link)
You've done all you can to reasonably reassure them. Now you have to gently shut down the conversation every time they bring it up. Remind them you've discussed it already many times and you love them, but you're going on this trip and you're looking forward to telling them all about it when you get back. Change the subject firmly if you have to. Gently, lovingly end the conversation if they persist in bringing it up again.

Your parents are having irrational fears, and there is no magic word to make those irrational fears vanish. Maybe consider texting them silly selfies of you having fun on your trip, because visual confirmation will probably be more soothing than a plain text. But don't cave, and assuming you are an adult who is paying for this trip yourself, don't let them rule your life.