[ SECRET POST #3468 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3468 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Phrasing! Trigger Warning, Talk of Rape

[(Anonymous)]

Eh, my mother is more a believer that people fall into natural schedules and you're better off letting your child take the lead. Correct the child only when they're doing something very bad and/or dangerous, don't sweat it if they would rather keep playing than go down for a nap at their usual time. Or don't make a fuss if they don't like the taste of peas. No one has to eat peas if they don't like them. Saves everyone a lot of time and tears.

Re: Phrasing! Trigger Warning, Talk of Rape

[(Anonymous)]

That will definitely not bite a parent in the ass when that child starts school.

Re: Phrasing! Trigger Warning, Talk of Rape

[(Anonymous)]

Yeah, it didn't. It was actually more helpful to know that after the strict regimen of a school day, you were going to a place where someone wasn't constantly on your ass.

Re: Phrasing! Trigger Warning, Talk of Rape

[(Anonymous)]

You do know there is a balance between complete hard ass and hippy parent. Right?

Re: Phrasing! Trigger Warning, Talk of Rape

[diet_poison]

There's a middle ground.

I grew out of naps sometime before I turned two. My mom was not happy about this. Naps are not just for the child; they are for the parents, who deserve a little bit of calm and sanity in the day. My mom made me go to my room for an hour. She didn't care if I slept; that was fighting a losing battle. I could play and entertain myself to my heart's content. But I had to go to my room and be quiet. Not unreasonable at all.

My mom also didn't make me eat mushrooms, which I hated (ironically, I like them now). Again, she picked her battles. I DID have to eat vegetables. If a kid absolutely despises peas? Fine, don't make them eat peas. If a kid refuses to eat ANY veggies at all? That is the foundation for a very unhealthy food lifestyle. Humans need vegetables. They will need to find some (including some green ones) that they can tolerate and get used to eating them. This is also, IMO, not reasonable.

Re: Phrasing! Trigger Warning, Talk of Rape

[(Anonymous)]

Oh my god no.

No to every one of these points. That is a fucking terrible parenting philosophy. Don't give the kid any structure at all? let them always do as they like as long as it isn't dangerous? How in the world does she think that's a good idea?