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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-07-06 05:35 pm

[ SECRET POST #3472 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3472 ⌋

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To the OP

[personal profile] dancinbutterfly 2016-07-07 12:46 am (UTC)(link)
Hey OP.

Listen. Lots of people have BIG ISSUES about sex. And I mean LOTS. You'd be stunned. You can talk all you want about how problematic Dan Savage is but real people call in about how they can only get off to giantess porn, being a furry(which is both harmless and totally fantastical in the dragons and unicorns sense of the word) or popping balloons on their junk. So. You know.

As far as "being damaged" is concerned - If this comes to actual sex, and you have a partner(s) or want to have a partner(s) and this issue getting in the way of something that you WANT to be doing - thats another thing entirely. Then you should seek professional help. But if it is just this one aspect of sex - just you and your personal pleasure time? Then get it girl! You are alone with your porn when you masturbate so there's no need to try and force yourself into something that hurts you because of what other people would think! They are not there for your orgasm - you are! You don't owe anyone that. Bask in the tentacles and robots! No one is making you watch vanilla porn are they? If they are I'll fucking fight them. ʕง•ᴥ•ʔง

I agree with everyone else that if you truly believe that your friends would turn on you, then you need better friends, way better friends. But I'll tell you - I dont think you do. I think your friends have the capacity to be loving and accepting if you feel you need to share. Because thats what friends do.

And if they don't FUCK them. I'll be your friend. Hell I'll be your friend ANYWAY. I personally love tentacle porn (although sometimes I'm bothered by how rapey the hentai is? Why cant the tentacles be friendly sometimes you know? Come on!) This artist on hentaifoundry does some great work you might like, his stuff can get super graphic but also there's also stuff like this that is still super graphic but is also borderline cute. There are safe spaces for stuff like this. You're not doing anything wrong.

You can message me here or on my LJ which is the same name as this or Tumblr message me which is ALSO the same name is this. I dont know if that's what you're looking for but I'm here if you want.

*hugs*

Edited 2016-07-07 00:47 (UTC)

Re: To the OP

(Anonymous) 2016-07-07 01:07 am (UTC)(link)
This is an awesome post. Well said.
dancinbutterfly: (Default)

Re: To the OP

[personal profile] dancinbutterfly 2016-07-07 01:27 am (UTC)(link)
Thanks!

And I forgot to mention how people have been getting off to stuff like tentacles for hundreds of years! The Dream of a Fisherman's Wife(aka the OG of tentacle porn) came out 202 years ago. And you've got the ancient Greeks inventing satyrs and then there was an entire genre of goatman porn that you can find in art that's considered "classical"and then there's Leda and the Swan which is straight up bestiality and that one was tackled by both Michelangelo and Rubens, not to mention the clusterfuck of bizarre erotic acts every single Heironymous Boch painting contained (check out the interactive, annotated Garden of Earthly Delights tho omg).

I mean come on. Weird porn is not new or revolutionary. The only thing is now we have access to more of it.

Re: To the OP

(Anonymous) 2016-07-07 01:40 am (UTC)(link)
AYRT

You're welcome, and LOL, good point! Yeah, some of those ancient writers had quite the vivid imaginations :D.