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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-07-12 06:28 pm

[ SECRET POST #3478 ]


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Re: Questions and Advice

(Anonymous) 2016-07-12 11:25 pm (UTC)(link)
A difference thing, is my theory.

When you're both women, an age difference is a difference that can be exciting. When you're an older man and an older woman, it's a similarity that might be boring.

I notice gay men like large age difference same-sex couples more than straight women do. Lots of straight women are attracted to older men but only if they "look" young in the Hollywood way as opposed to literally going for men 20+ years older than them but that's not uncommon in gay relationships.

Re: Questions and Advice

(Anonymous) 2016-07-12 11:27 pm (UTC)(link)
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By that I mean, lots of women crush on Hollywood actors 20+ years older than them but most of them don't enter into relationships with men IRL that are that much older but in the gay circles that's not uncommon. So my theory is that the age gap is a thing they can make a significant difference when the genders are the same.
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Re: Questions and Advice

[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2016-07-12 11:29 pm (UTC)(link)
I think part of it is also a reproduction thing, sad to say. In a m/f relationship the topic of biological children is going to come up sooner or later (also, a 20-something guy dating a 30-something woman, might have to concede to have kids w earlier than he wants to, while a 30-something woman and a 40-something guy might see that as less of an issue, provided they both want kids)

Re: Questions and Advice

(Anonymous) 2016-07-13 06:34 pm (UTC)(link)
er well it's also that there are much fewer gay men statistically and many of the older generations were lost