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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-07-13 06:44 pm

[ SECRET POST #3479 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3479 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Lifetime's UnReal]


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[X-Men movies. Charles/Erik]


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[Andrew Zimmern vs. Anthony Bourdain]


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[Secretary]


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[Stardew Valley]


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[Notre Dame de Paris (French Musical)]


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[Erma]













Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 00 secrets from Secret Submission Post #497.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: Gender Thread

(Anonymous) 2016-07-14 12:28 am (UTC)(link)
Consistently following me around. Admitting to tracking me down by seeing where my username had been active when things got too coincidental with my weird schedule (we were both students at the same school). Frequent PMs after I stopped responding. Not leaving me alone when I explained that, no, thank you, I really wasn’t interested in coordinating in the game, and yes, I was still seeing someone, and no, I didn’t feel comfortable telling him where I lived because I didn’t know him very well, and fuck you, you don't try to kiss strangers who have repeatedly expressed their disinterest.

He did cut it out after I threatened to get campus police involved, and I stopped playing Ingress until I moved far from campus and made a new Google account.

I'll only go out of my way to find portals (or these days, find gyms or pokemon) if I'm with a buddy, and I probably don't have to be that paranoid anymore, and it could have been a shit-ton worse, but.

Re: Gender Thread

(Anonymous) 2016-07-14 08:59 am (UTC)(link)
Sounds like you met a very confused and inexperienced nerd boy, likely with some other issues he doesn't know need addressing. I can say that he meant no harm but that doesn't excuse the harm he caused. I am sorry that he made you fearful.

da

(Anonymous) 2016-07-14 11:22 am (UTC)(link)
you know that a stalker doesn't need to intentionally be threatening to be a stalker, right. it's even defined by the law.
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Re: Gender Thread

[personal profile] diet_poison 2016-07-14 03:38 pm (UTC)(link)
um. Even if he was "confused and inexperienced" there's no excuse for acting that way. you should be taught when you're six fucking years old not to act that way. No means no. You don't fucking try to KISS someone who has blatantly said they're not interested. Yikes.