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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-07-16 03:29 pm

[ SECRET POST #3482 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3482 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2016-07-17 07:29 am (UTC)(link)
im drunk also how do you not have anxiety and worry people are mad at you?

im worried my gf is mad cause i stayed out later then i meant to with my friend, even though i kept in communication, she knew i was going out and I don't go out with friends often????? i don't even know if shes mad (we are just texting rn) but im like !!! what if she is mad at me? anxietyu sucks

repasted cause im drunk and dont want to retype it im sorry

(Anonymous) 2016-07-17 10:23 am (UTC)(link)
You're disgusting. This whole comment just smacks of abuse. I hope she leaves you.
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[personal profile] sky_queen3 2016-07-17 11:48 am (UTC)(link)
I'm confused, how does Anon being drunk, staying out later than they thought they would with their friend and being worried their girlfriend is mad at them abuse?

(Anonymous) 2016-07-17 02:48 pm (UTC)(link)
The answer is simple. Ayrt is an idiot.

(Anonymous) 2016-07-17 06:13 pm (UTC)(link)
You're alone for a reason, and that reason is you.
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[personal profile] dancingmouse 2016-07-17 09:14 pm (UTC)(link)
You're a fucking idiot. Quit reading into things that aren't even there. It saves everyone around you a whole lot of headache.


(Anonymous) 2016-07-17 07:30 pm (UTC)(link)
Talk to her. (When you're sober.)

As long as you're not staying out later than you told her on a regular basis, or not telling her and making her worry that you've been in a horrible accident and are dead, or standing her up when you have plans together, it shouldn't be a big deal.

(Anonymous) 2016-07-18 04:26 am (UTC)(link)
1. Work on your self confidence and self esteem, particularly the part where you manage your anxieties better.
2. TALK TO YOUR GIRLFRIEND. Don't be that person who's constantly seeking reassurance ("are you mad at me? Are sure you're not mad?", etc. etc.), but communicate better. Use your words if you're worried, and listen hard to the response.
3. Have a serious think about whether or not getting drunk is a great idea, since it seems to let loose some weird anxieties that you're not well equipped to handle.

(Anonymous) 2016-07-19 06:32 am (UTC)(link)
OP here replying a few days later cause I low key forgot I made this comment and I've been busy but: my gf wasn't mad so that's good (she was actually just annoyed cause her water heater broke). Also I actually have bad anxiety and read too much into stuff all the time, when I'm drunk I just apparently decide telling F!S about them are a good idea??? And I do need to work on my self esteem though, that is clear :/