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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-07-20 06:51 pm

[ SECRET POST #3486 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3486 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Maya Rudolph & Martin Short]


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[Hamilton/South Park]


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[John Spencer]


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[Sliders]


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[Daniel Radcliffe]


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[Star Trek: Deep Space Nine]


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[Dune]


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[Assassin's Creed Syndicate]


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[Mulberry]


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Re: How to be more firm

[personal profile] mrs_don_draper 2016-07-21 01:49 am (UTC)(link)
I had/have this problem too. Honestly, keep repeating your point in the same manner. Don't budge too much though. If you want it, you have to believe it. And honestly, it's less about you and more about the people you're dealing with. If you're being calm and rational, and they're still not listening or respecting you, then there is nothing else you can do. I am so sorry people feel the need to yell at you to make their point. That's not okay, and if they're adults, they aren't very mature-sounding people. <3

Here's a piece of advice my Mom always tells me and my sister: You're not going to like everybody, and not everybody is going to like you. And that's okay. (The mantra really works after a few tries.)