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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-07-22 06:39 pm

[ SECRET POST #3488 ]


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Re: Advice thread

(Anonymous) 2016-07-23 01:33 am (UTC)(link)
Your friend dumped her fiance three years ago. She's been married to another guy for a year and they already have a kid. Assuming she didn't dump his ass because of abuse, cheating, or serious irresponsibility, is her ex still off-limits?

Re: Advice thread

(Anonymous) 2016-07-23 01:37 am (UTC)(link)
That's fine. To me that's fine.
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Re: Advice thread

[personal profile] shortysc22 2016-07-23 01:43 am (UTC)(link)
I'd say tread carefully and as long as they ended on decent terms, go ahead. I think it depends on how you think she'd feel too (if she a crazy person that might fly off the handle at something like this?)

Re: Advice thread

(Anonymous) 2016-07-23 01:47 am (UTC)(link)
Reverse the situation. Would it bother you if she dated your ex?

Though in reality, her ex is not off-limits unless he's with someone. You can date him all you want. Just understand that your friend might have mixed feelings about it (though she can't forbid you from seeing him).

Re: Advice thread

(Anonymous) 2016-07-23 02:29 am (UTC)(link)
I think it's ok, but be careful. Maybe talk to her first? Not to ask permission but at least warn her, let her know you don't want to hurt her but you just really like this guy. It's better than her finding out in some other way.
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Re: Advice thread

[personal profile] dancingmouse 2016-07-23 03:15 am (UTC)(link)
They've been separated for years, and it seems like she moved on. I say the Ex is on limits. Just be careful.