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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-07-27 06:34 pm

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Trying kinks in real life

(Anonymous) 2016-07-27 11:05 pm (UTC)(link)
Have you ever tried any of your fandom kinks? How did it go?
kallanda_lee: (Default)

Re: Trying kinks in real life

[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2016-07-27 11:07 pm (UTC)(link)
Ughh....pegging? Which honestly was less about pegging but me liking slash a lot and you know, butt stuff.

It went...well, I'd say.
sparrow_lately: (peggy)

Re: Trying kinks in real life

[personal profile] sparrow_lately 2016-07-27 11:41 pm (UTC)(link)
I like your tone of cautious optimism in this comment.
kallanda_lee: (Default)

Re: Trying kinks in real life

[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2016-07-27 11:44 pm (UTC)(link)
Well, you know. It takes two to tango and all that
sparrow_lately: (Default)

Re: Trying kinks in real life

[personal profile] sparrow_lately 2016-07-27 11:49 pm (UTC)(link)
Nudge nudge wink wink etc etc ad nauseum
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Re: Trying kinks in real life

[personal profile] sarillia 2016-07-27 11:16 pm (UTC)(link)
Spanking and verbal humiliation have gone well.

I've found that orgasm delay/denial doesn't work for me. I just don't get that desperate. When someone teases me about how they're going to stop and not let me come, I don't think my reaction is supposed to be a shrug and "okay, should we find something else to do then?" but that's the first thing that comes to mind.

Re: Trying kinks in real life

(Anonymous) 2016-07-27 11:16 pm (UTC)(link)
I mean some of my more fandomy kinks are like... impossible, or just would be weirdly specific roleplays.

I have always liked overstimulation in fanfic though, and tried it recently irl. Results were positive.
sparrow_lately: (nat)

Re: Trying kinks in real life

[personal profile] sparrow_lately 2016-07-27 11:42 pm (UTC)(link)
A lot of mine that I love in fandom would require way too much specific role playing irl. That said, tried both fiancé's big kink and several of mine. Good times were had.

Re: Trying kinks in real life

(Anonymous) 2016-07-27 11:46 pm (UTC)(link)
Well, pet play opened up a lot of new avenues with my new boyfriend. THAT was nice.

Edging? Also a massive success. As was Daddy/boy play--been collared for about five years now, my spouse and I are both very happy about it.

Spanking, sadly, was far more fun in theory than in practice. :( Masturbation wasn't successful either.

Re: Trying kinks in real life

(Anonymous) 2016-07-27 11:51 pm (UTC)(link)
No, my kinks are all illegal and/or highly immoral in real life, and the thought of doing any of them in real life is disgusting and terrifying.

Re: Trying kinks in real life

(Anonymous) 2016-07-27 11:52 pm (UTC)(link)
I mean, roleplay exists.

Re: Trying kinks in real life

(Anonymous) 2016-07-28 12:19 am (UTC)(link)
Too much trouble, not enough payoff in comparison to the fantasy.

Re: Trying kinks in real life

(Anonymous) 2016-07-27 11:55 pm (UTC)(link)
can't, tentacles aren't real.

though fic/fandom did encourage me to try anal, and I have to say it's pretty damn awesome.

Re: Trying kinks in real life

[personal profile] herpymcderp 2016-07-28 12:15 am (UTC)(link)
But baddragon.com exists, so you can have tentacles irl.

Re: Trying kinks in real life

(Anonymous) 2016-07-28 12:50 am (UTC)(link)
true, but they don't move on their own! that's kind of part of the kink, at least for me.

Re: Trying kinks in real life

(Anonymous) 2016-07-28 02:34 am (UTC)(link)
Most of them except tentacles. I found I'm pretty vanilla aside from occasional buggery.

Re: Trying kinks in real life

(Anonymous) 2016-07-28 06:59 am (UTC)(link)
I kind of went the other way; I tried pegging when a guy I sometimes have sex with asked me to, found I liked it a surprising lot, and then started looking for porn of it in my fandoms (and occasionally writing it.)