[ SECRET POST #3504 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3504 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Relationship advice

[(Anonymous)]

I've been in a relationship before where plans fell apart lot (we both had a lot of serious family stuff going on at the time that took precedence) but we never actually stood each other up, so that's pretty rude of him. If you're going to cancel a date, there's generally no reason you can't do so before the other person leaves their house to go to the arranged meeting place (obviously there are some exceptions to this like if someone's car breaks down or something but I'm guessing this isn't the case here).

Have you tried talking to him about it and telling him that your feelings have been hurt because he keeps standing you up and that you feel like he isn't taking your relationship seriously?

AYRT

[(Anonymous)]

I guess I should talk about it. I'm too forgiving and accepting when he says he apologizes. I just got out of a relationship (long distance the entire time we never met face to face. I guess I should have mentioned that. I'm not sure whether it constitutes as one or not. My parents say it doesn't???) where someone just cold cut contact after being gone a lot.

I can't help blaming myself and worrying if it was me who drove him away by trying to contact him too much. And I don't want to drive someone else away.

I'm doing my best to be a good girlfriend but keep feeling let down.

Re: AYRT

[(Anonymous)]

ayrt

I'm doing my best to be a good girlfriend but keep feeling let down

Well, it sounds like he's not trying his best to be a good boyfriend, and I think you should definitely address that with him. Relationships are a two way street, and if you're the only one putting any effort into this relationship then it's only going to get worse. I know there's a lot of internal and external pressure on a lot of people to be in a romantic relationship, but being single is a million times better than being with someone who constantly blows you off and doesn't seem to have much respect for you.

I'm not trying to sound like I think your relationship is a lost cause; I think it's possible that you could talk things out with your boyfriend and improve your relationship. But if he refuses to actually put in the effort to making these changes, then it would definitely be time to dump him.

Re: AYRT

[(Anonymous)]

Yeah. I think it's time for me to say something.