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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-08-07 03:47 pm

[ SECRET POST #3504 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3504 ⌋

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chardmonster: (Default)

Re: Is toppy switch a thing?

[personal profile] chardmonster 2016-08-08 03:07 am (UTC)(link)
Well of course there are exceptions, but... yeah. Dude straight men have weird hangups. It's not their fault, but they're there. In my experience the hangups are there even when they say they aren't. And it sucks.

I mean you could say I'm wrong and that's just who I've been unlucky enough to be with, except that this appears to be a shared experience with just about every woman who has ever written to an advice columnist.

Maybe it's a term problem? Being on top doesn't mean you're being "a top," you realize that.
Edited 2016-08-08 03:09 (UTC)
diet_poison: (Default)

Re: Is toppy switch a thing?

[personal profile] diet_poison 2016-08-10 02:42 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh, yeah a lot of dudes do have hangups. I guess I just read your comment as meaning "straight people all fall into traditional roles which is very boring, I would hate to be one of them" which is clearly not what you meant, so sorry!