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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-08-09 06:27 pm

[ SECRET POST #3506 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3506 ⌋

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[http://transgirlnextdoor.tumblr.com/]











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(Anonymous) 2016-08-09 11:21 pm (UTC)(link)
Try again.

Imagine you found that one out of a hundred who shows interest in you. He's attracted to you, he seems to like you, you have awesome sex-- and he won't tell anyone he's dating you. He denigrates trans people with his friends. He won't let you MEET his friends, much less his family. You're his dirty little secret.

But hey, he'll fuck you!

That is a chaser.
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[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2016-08-09 11:29 pm (UTC)(link)
THAT is - but, tbh, I've heard the term used on ANYONE who has a specific preference for trans women (or, insert any minority here), which I also think is unfair. Like there's this ideology that you should like everyone equally even in attraction and it just does not work that way.

(Anonymous) 2016-08-09 11:36 pm (UTC)(link)
That's one type of chaser. Another kind is the one that puts groups of people on a pedestal and cares more about what they are than who they are i.e. they're into a certain type and don't care who it is or what they're like as long as they're that type. This isn't necessarily only sexual either: see 1990s weeaboos dreaming of the perfect Japanese wife where Japanese was the most prominent qualification with everything else about her being lesser and being willing to forgive anything because omg, Japanese gf desu.

I don't mean to say that people like this can't have real and fulfilling relationships with their object of pedestal-ing, because they can. But it doesn't make them not chasers.