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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-08-09 06:27 pm

[ SECRET POST #3506 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3506 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2016-08-10 12:02 am (UTC)(link)
I mean I don't see how having a kind of preference is wrong, you say BUT THEY'RE FETISHIZING ME AND MY BODY, but really they're just being attracted to it.

As long as they aren't creeps/jerks about it is okay.

People who are overly insecure and submissive are scared of relationship attempts that end in failure. It makes them feel hurt and powerless. They want to date when an emotional connection is guaranteed, even when common logic dictates that it is impossible. This puts a burden on the "chaser", a person who professes a sexual attraction that does not necessarily promises an emotional connection and long term relationship. The more a person's sexual preference targets a group of people who is insecure and submissive, the more that person is likely to be unfairly represented as a sexual maniac who is unable to love when making making a simple statement of sexual attraction unless the statement is simultaneously paired with a genuine promise of long term relationship unrelated to the sexual attraction.

(Anonymous) 2016-08-10 12:19 am (UTC)(link)
People who are predominantly attracted to Asians =/= Asian chasers.

http://fandomsecrets.dreamwidth.org/1463398.html?thread=925554790#cmt925554790

This is a better example of what a chaser is.

(Anonymous) 2016-08-10 08:40 am (UTC)(link)
>As long as they aren't creeps/jerks about it is okay.

hey guess what, we have a term for those people!

chasers!
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[personal profile] arcadiaego 2016-08-10 09:50 pm (UTC)(link)
As long as they aren't creeps/jerks about it is okay.

That's what 'chaser' means. It's a very widespread phenomenon. There's a reason there's 'ebony' or 'teenage Asian girls' categories in porn and not a 'ivory' one for white women.