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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-08-21 03:12 pm

[ SECRET POST #3518 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3518 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Star Trek: Voyager]


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[Voltron]


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[Up the Women]


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[Digimon Adventure 02]


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[Assassin's Creed: Syndicate]


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[The Sims]


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[The X-Files]


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[Letterkenny, Stewart/Katy]












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Re: Things you want to tell people but can't

(Anonymous) 2016-08-23 06:53 pm (UTC)(link)
Actually, I'm pretty sure you like to throw around words like "projection" to make yourself sound more psychologically aware, when you have no idea what you're talking about. "Projection" is not drawing the conclusion--based on your observations of other people's behavior in the past and your recollections of the motives from which it sprang--that someone's present behavior springs from the same motives. Projection is attributing your own unacceptable emotions to others--like accusing someone you envy of being jealous of you.

And maybe you have never said in so many words that you're "owed" an explanation, but when you evidently want one, and call someone all kinds of names for not providing one, it's pretty clear that you think you're entitled to one.
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Re: Things you want to tell people but can't

[personal profile] diet_poison 2016-08-24 01:42 pm (UTC)(link)
So if "projection" isn't the right word, what is the right word for "you clearly seem to have experiences and are assigning motives to me based on the experiences you've had with other people"? Honest question, because I'm not trained in psychology (nor am I trying to pretend to be...) and I want to make sure I'm being clear. But you are still doing it, even with this comment, drawing conclusions about my motives and actions based on what I can only assume are your past experiences with other people because you have no evidence on which to base your claims about my behavior.

For example, I also never claimed to call people names for not being willing to provide an explanation for sudden changes of heart. You put that in yourself. Why?