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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-08-24 06:43 pm

[ SECRET POST #3521 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3521 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[World of Warcraft: Legion]


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(Fallout 4)


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[Doctor Who - 12/Clara]


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(The Hitch Hiker's Guide to the Galaxy)


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[Bojack Horseman]


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[Criminal Minds]


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[Elite: Dangerous]


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[Street Fighter]












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Re: Venting thread.

(Anonymous) 2016-08-29 10:30 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry, I know people are very quick to say "cut 'em off!" around here in response to any imperfect family dynamic. And I don't mean that you should do that. It's just...I'm floored at the selfishness and cluelessness you're having to deal with, and it's sad that even the "good" members of your family think it's okay to use you as a buffer as they do, without offering anything in exchange.
belladonna_took: richard armitage (Default)

Re: Venting thread.

[personal profile] belladonna_took 2016-09-01 12:05 am (UTC)(link)
Thanks for taking the time to respond.
Family is always complicated I guess. I don't think we've ever been a particularly functional one. Who knows why. I think in part the reason they're so comfortable asking things from me is that I like to help people and I don't like to ask for help. In hindsight it hasn't made for the best relationship dynamics.
I think the best option is trying to stick to the boundaries I set and let them be part of my life on my terms. So far it's not going well, but I've got time.