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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-08-27 04:15 pm

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belladonna_took: richard armitage (Default)

Re: Confessions

[personal profile] belladonna_took 2016-08-27 10:55 pm (UTC)(link)
I've been counting down to the same date. Mine will be next year.

I don't know why it seems like such a big thing to me, but it just does. I get it. I really hate that I can't think about her as being around for most of my life after that, because she'll be gone longer. It just doesn't make sense given how important she was to me that she just stops being such a big part of my life from then on (even in a way that probably doesn't matter all that much). It really makes me think about all the time I've missed out on with her and all the things I've missed talking to her about.

I think if you need the extra support around anniversaries or you just want to acknowledge the person who passed, most people can relate to that. A lot of people post memorials in the local paper every year around the same time. It's a pretty common way for people to go about it. It doesn't take much effort for them to either ignore or acknowledge something like a facebook post. It's not disruptive to them. I don't think you should feel bad about it.