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⌈ Secret Post #3537 ⌋

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[Art by: http://slashpalooza.tumblr.com/post/149564769513/thank-you-for-all-the-comments-havent-had-time]

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[Twin Peaks]

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[Stephen King, BTK murderer and The Good Marriage]

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06. [WARNING for pedophilia, incest]

(Rick and Morty)

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07. [WARNING for rl death]

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My parents were pretty free range, "sort your own shit out" types, and while that kind of detachment has had negative consequences in other ways, I'm definitely noticing how much tougher it's made me than my more coddled peers in some respects. And it's only getting more pronounced as we age, not less. Sure, they've got great relationships with their parents, but they're all extremely dissatisfied with the lives/jobs they have and what they've accomplished as we head into our collective mid-30s.

Whereas my parents made it clear that things I did wrong were my fault, not theirs, that I could absolutely lose their respect and even their love through my actions, and that I was only as special as I made myself through hard work and talent. (Also that I would always be inferior to my brothers because they had dicks because the sky wizard loves dicks more than boxes but that's a whoooole 'nother conversation. But that just made my beating my brothers at shit fucking beautiful because I'm a spiteful bitch.)

As such idk it's tough not to want to impart some of that to any future kids I'd have. Not the dicks part, just the "sort your own shit out/you're only as special as your accomplishments" part. I wonder if some of my peers who are bemoaning fucking the dog their entire teenaged/young adult years will also take note.

that I could absolutely lose...their love through my actions

That's fucked up.

And honestly, a lot of the people I know who are close to their parents are also very successful. (I'm sort of including myself in this; I'm pretty happy with where I am now, except for being seemingly perpetually single, but I digress) I don't think you have to take a tough-as-nails approach to parenting to help your kids be independent and successful.

Yeah, I know it's fucked up. I definitely wouldn't do everything they did.

I and most of my peers came from very poor families in a shitty part of town and required a little something extra to not fall victim to the same cycles of poverty our parents did, and... most did not.

Ah...that sounds rough. Sounds like they did what they could and really wanted you guys to break out of that cycle.

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