[ SECRET POST #3539 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3539 ⌋

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Comments

Re: How well do you "read" your SO?

[(Anonymous)]

No one is arguing about that. Are you purposely misreading? The issue isn't that she stopped. That is her right. The issue is that she is acting like she was stopping because SHE knows more about what HE wants than he does.

Re: How well do you "read" your SO?

[thelesbianfuturist]

No, you're not getting it. In the hypothetical situation with the SO wanting to have her face smashed in by an iron, I have the absolute right to say "No I don't want to do that because I don't think you'll survive it" she didn't just say "You can't handle it so you don't get it" like she was a parent denying a kid ice-cream, she was saying "You can't handle it, and I don't want to be involved." which is her right. If I don't think you can handle driving a bus, I have the absolute right to get off that bus. If I don't think you can handle a threeway, I have the absolute right to get out of that threeway. Whats the alternative? Keep going and be proved right "Well officer, I thought he couldn't handle it, and I was right, but he said to keep going and now he's dead. What a bummer"

Re: How well do you "read" your SO?

[(Anonymous)]

Why are you having so much trouble seeing his side of it? It's insulting to be told you can't handle something. It's insulting to have a lover decide your own limits for you.

And no matter how potentially risky a threesome is, it's not an iron to face or a bus driver without a license FFS.

Re: How well do you "read" your SO?

[(Anonymous)]

I mean, with respect, I feel like there's a GIANT difference between "I don't want to be involved because this might cause LITERAL PHYSICAL HARM" and "I heard this noise and interpreted it this way, and instead of actually talking to you about it, I'm going to assume that I knew your feelings better then you did and stop it, also, it's your fault I'm stopping it. Because, again, I know your feelings better then you do."

Re: How well do you "read" your SO?

[(Anonymous)]

It's her right to say "I don't want to be involved".

It is not her right to say, and continue saying "You can't handle it, you don't actually know what you want, I know your emotions better than you do".

She needs to sit the fuck down and admit that she's wrong about what she thinks he's feeling, and take ownership of her own discomfort with that particular avenue of play. She was 100% within her rights to end the threesome, but that doesn't make her whole "I know what's best for you" schtick anything other than 100% infantilizing horseshit.