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fandomsecrets2016-09-11 04:13 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2016-09-11 04:13 pm
[ SECRET POST #3539 ]
⌈ Secret Post #3539 ⌋
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Re: How well do you "read" your SO?
(Anonymous) 2016-09-12 01:55 am (UTC)(link)She is not wrong to want to get out. She is wrong to insist that she absolutely knows his mind better than he does.
Fine: Stopping it because she was uncomfortable.
Fine: Stopping it because she was uncomfortable because she thought he was in pain.
Not Fine: Insisting that she knows his level of comfort better than he does, especially after he says what his level comfort is.
In other words, it's not about the threesome or her stopping it, it's about how she cannot get over herself enough to admit that she does not get decide how he feels. People can and do make decisions based on assumptions about how another person is feeling, but they don't get to say they know how that person feels better than that person.