I think on a big enough scale I wish that we didn't have to choose between those things, and that there was both representation and fandom for everything.

That said, I personally would like it if there were more shows that had women inhabiting the variety of roles that men handle in fiction, not just because of representation but also because I would enjoy shipping it. It's frustrating to think about how common it is to have shows with, you know, five or six male characters with different personalities and roles that you can ship, and how much rarer that is for female characters. And I would personally prefer that to Steven Universe, because I don't like Steven Universe.