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fandomsecrets2016-09-20 06:24 pm
[ SECRET POST #3548 ]
⌈ Secret Post #3548 ⌋
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[Ouran High School Host Club]
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[Darren Criss]
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[Great British Bake Off, Sue Perkins, Mel Giedroyc]
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[The 100]
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[Death in Paradise]
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(Anonymous) 2016-09-21 05:34 pm (UTC)(link)I assume you're also fine with "misgendering" a transsexual? Because that's my beef - I am ok with a person feeling dysphoric and wanting to change their sex, I just don't see why on earth would that mean that they also absolutely must change their pronouns, names and everything else that goes with it. I am also perfectly fine with a person who wants to change their name, pronouns and everything else that goes with it but doens't feel liek changing their body. If that perosn's not trans, what are they?
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(Anonymous) 2016-09-21 09:23 pm (UTC)(link)And no, sorry to disappoint. I have a general rule of being polite to people and will address them according to their wishes, if their choice of pronouns stays in an acceptable range. I will be highly skeptical if someone presenting as a super stereotypical girly girl insists on male pronouns, but sure, whatever, no skin off my back.
"Doesn't feel like changing their body" is where the example I gave comes in - as I have said, I understand that surgery is not for everyone.
But yeah, someone who insists on special pronouns and a different name but wouldn't even think of wanting to change either their gender-presentation or anything about their body, that's what I'd call the classic special snowflake talked about in this thread.