fandomsecrets | [ SECRET POST #464 ]

⌈ Secret Post #464 ⌋

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Successful Troll is Successful. Since it managed to make a bunch of people look like complete cunts. Yeah, the girls got problems (If OP is not a troll). Obviously.

But people leaving comments like, "get therapy" or "ana pride" or, "your a stupid bitch enjoy your malnutrition." or even "Your Selfish." Is exactly the reason why people with eating disorders DON'T TELL PEOPLE THEY HAVE ONE AND DON'T SEEK HELP. It is the reason *why* girls get to this point. Since you are just reinforcing the point that THE ARE A LONE AND NO ONE WILL EVER UNDERSTAND THEM SO THEY SHOULD KEEP THEIR EATING DISORDERS TO THEMSELVES. And continue their hazardous ways of life.

Any of the people that bashed OP(whether troll or not, that is just besides the point) of secret 24, deserve a smack in the face next time they need help and understanding. Since they obviously don't deserve it. How can you deserve, what you don't give to others? In the worst case scenario that is the secret of a sad, lost, and messed up girl. It is nice to know that a good amount of fandom is filled with people that have no empathy and understanding.

Some of the harsh responses here came from people who have themselves suffered from EDs. Perhaps those are the stern words they wish they themselves had heard. Reminding someone of how their illness harms the people they love is not an entirely incorrect tactic - it's the reason I haven't taken my own life or cut myself.

But OTOH, here's expert advice from Anorexia Nervosa and Other Eating Disorders (http://www.anred.com/hlp.html):

"Never nag, plead, beg, bribe, threaten or manipulate. These things don't work."

"Never criticize or shame. These tactics are cruel, and the person will withdraw."

(There's lots of information sheets at the ANRED Web site (http://www.anred.com/index.html), which 24's OP might like to take a look at.)

"Never criticize or shame. These tactics are cruel, and the person will withdraw." is what I was attempting to say.

This comment OP also suffered from and ED. And if I was still sick and read about 95% of those comments it would just make me retreat more into my eating disorder. Because they would have made me feel more alienated. Surviving and ED doesn't make you special and allow you to say harsh things to people still suffering.

Note about people who suffer with EDS, they KNOW THEIR DISORDER BATTER THAN YOU DO. Most know the consequences most have done extensive research. It is their obsession. No matter how many times you tell someone it will kill them or harm, they don't care and know. Every person including myself with an ED, was a walking ED dictionary.

=/ Sad but true.

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