[ SECRET POST #3552 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3552 ⌋

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

Hm. When I was with girls I identified as a lesbian despite having had a relationship with a boy before. I was pretty sure that I'd just come to realize who I "really" am. So to my bisexual self this seems pretty accurate.
It wasn't until I got together with a guy again that I started identifying as "bi", because somehow I AM living heterosexually now, and even though it doesn't really matter anymore (since I plan to keep this guy) I still feel that I want to retain something of my lesbian identity so I go with "bisexual". But... Idk... I find it kinda obnoxious when people try to insist it's something entirely different from being gay or being straight. because it's ... kinda just being both.
Sure, sometimes I miss the good times in the gay community in which I feel less welcome now because I have a man and a kid but seriously, I get all the hetero privilege instead so why complain?

[(Anonymous)]

When I was with girls I identified as a lesbian despite having had a relationship with a boy before. I was pretty sure that I'd just come to realize who I "really" am. So to my bisexual self this seems pretty accurate.

I really think it's this, right here. Willow was young and discovering herself; this was a constant theme in Buffy. She discovered she was attracted to Tara and to her limited awareness this pinged as "gay now." Also, Willow is definitely a monogamist, which is why the Oz returns episode was so incredibly painful for her. It confused her both emotionally and in terms of her sexuality.