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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-09-24 03:58 pm

[ SECRET POST #3552 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3552 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2016-09-24 08:29 pm (UTC)(link)
I was already out of college when Buffy aired, and well settled into the stereotypical hetero lifestyle that I'd been exposed to all my life (married and with kids). When Willow first got interested in Tara I was sort of thrown because, wait a minute, while I knew I wasn't a lesbian since I liked guys, the idea that I could be bi hadn't really occurred to me (bisexuality in general hadn't really been anything I'd ever been exposed to or knew much about) but there was Willow and she'd been interested in guys but now she was interested in a woman and wow… this was an idea I could get behind. So many feelings I'd had/been having made so much more sense all of a sudden. But holy hell, the discourse and discussion around her character were so anti-bi it was disheartening and I wound up shoving my realization about myself way, way down and it took YEARS to go back and accept that I was bi and not straight. So, long story short (too late, I know) I hears you OP, I hear you.