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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-09-24 03:58 pm

[ SECRET POST #3552 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3552 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2016-09-25 01:35 am (UTC)(link)
Call them race traitors and all that fun stuff. Or question why they won't date a black woman. Or write long essays about how misogynist they are.

Here are some highlights.

http://because-blackgirls-duh.tumblr.com/post/100375466645/stop-fucking-with-niggas-that-dont-fuck-with
http://cmtothemc.tumblr.com/post/101071441998/if-a-black-man-is-with-a-white-woman-appropriating
http://imgur.com/YfOE8zi
Some lesbians for variety! https://web.archive.org/web/20150805192220/http://www.forharriet.com/2015/07/on-nurturing-potential-of-black-lesbian.html?m=1
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[personal profile] diet_poison 2016-09-27 02:40 pm (UTC)(link)
Sadly the middle two links don't work for me at work :/

the first one is basically...shame and ostracize black men in interracial relationships? wtf??? that's real progress

the last one seems to be coming from a place of "it's impossible to have a healthy relationship with someone whose demographic has ever oppressed my demographic" and that's just kinda sad. I certainly don't begrudge OP her preference, but it does kinda sound like she is shaming others in her community for dating outside her own preference, which again is :(

this topic is more personal to me since I was recently in an interracial relationship. I don't have a specific racial preference when it comes to men and have dated men in and out of my race, so it's possible I may be in a similar situation in the future, who knows? I don't feel persecuted or anything but it makes me sad and a bit weird to think a lot of these people would have given my ex (a black guy) a lot of shit for dating me. even if I no longer care if people give him specifically shit bc he's an asshole It's just a very regressive mindset IMO. Maybe I'm saying that from a place of privilege. idk.