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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-10-12 07:22 pm

[ SECRET POST #3570 ]


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greenvelvetcake: (Default)

Re: Peak identity bullshit rant

[personal profile] greenvelvetcake 2016-10-13 12:42 am (UTC)(link)
When you don't feel romantic emotions for them. Love, trust, and wanting to spend your life with someone else isn't inherently romantic. You can feel the same things for a friend, a relative, a pet.

Re: Peak identity bullshit rant

(Anonymous) 2016-10-13 12:53 am (UTC)(link)
Okay, but what even are "romantic emotions?" I feel like some people call themselves "aromantic" because they claim they don't feel "butterflies" or whatever that means, but I feel like wanting to spend the rest of your life with someone to the point where you see them pretty much every day until you die and raise a child with them goes beyond normal platonic feelings.

Like, look, I love my friends, but I wouldn't want to dedicate the majority of my life to being around them. I'm fine not seeing them for a few days every now and then, and I don't feel the need to bind myself to them in some way (through a child/marriage/etc.)
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Re: Peak identity bullshit rant

[personal profile] greenvelvetcake 2016-10-13 03:03 am (UTC)(link)
Why is time the difference in feeling of platonic love and romantic love? I think romantic love is something else - and having romantic feelings for someone isn't an indicator they'll last forever. I've definitely had times where I just want to live with a couple friends in a big house and live together for years. People can similarly want to spend, if not their entire lives, a long time with parents/children/siblings.