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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-10-30 03:57 pm

[ SECRET POST #3588 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3588 ⌋

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Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 62 secrets from Secret Submission Post #513.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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Re: I've said it before, and I'll say it again

(Anonymous) 2016-10-31 12:03 am (UTC)(link)
The fact that everyone who disagrees with you is a troll is alarming, honestly. The world will not coddle you.

"I would eat that" doesn't mean anything more than an idle, vague interest, and doesn't mean you will eat it if it was given to you. It's interest, but not an obligation. That you think it is means I would never be friends with you because you'd take even the vaguest statement of interest as a fucking obligation to you.

I'm not playing Devil's Advocate, this is legit what I believe. Because I live in the real world and not in Tumblr's Cuddlesphere.
crossy_woad: chicken (Default)

Re: I've said it before, and I'll say it again

[personal profile] crossy_woad 2016-10-31 12:10 am (UTC)(link)
Not everyone is a troll. Just you :)

Re: I've said it before, and I'll say it again

(Anonymous) 2016-10-31 12:12 am (UTC)(link)
Except I'm not, but whatever helps you sleep at night with people now saying what you want to hear.

Re: I've said it before, and I'll say it again

(Anonymous) 2016-10-31 12:34 am (UTC)(link)
Which is why you're not replying to the differing!opinion anons who respond to you reasonably, I guess
crossy_woad: chicken (Default)

Re: I've said it before, and I'll say it again

[personal profile] crossy_woad 2016-10-31 01:35 am (UTC)(link)
i think i responded to pretty much everybody?

(Anonymous) 2016-10-31 12:32 am (UTC)(link)
This x1000. Maybe what OP wrote is something that didn't interest their friends at all. Would they rather their friends lied and pretended to be interested in something they didn't actually care about? Personally, I would much rather my friends be honest about not having an interest in something than fake it, because faking it would mean that they didn't feel comfortable enough to be honest with me, and I don't want that.

(Anonymous) 2016-10-31 07:55 am (UTC)(link)
Really, how hard is it to communicate?

Pretending nothing happened and hoping you forgot is not honesty. Silence is not honesty! There are ways to be honest while being tactful and if that's too much effort then you're not much of a good friend!

(Anonymous) 2016-10-31 08:37 am (UTC)(link)
If a considerable amount of time has passed since the time OP's friends said they'd buy it and when OP actually published the book, there's a good chance the friends don't even remember that they said that in the first place. I mean, just among my own friend group, we say stuff like "oh we should totally do X" all the time and then it gets completely forgotten in a couple of weeks because it was just a passing idea rather than something we were serious about committing to.