case: ([ Zell; Puppyface. ])
Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2008-04-23 05:27 pm

[ SECRET POST #474 ]


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Secrets Left to Post: 06 pages, 128 secrets from Secret Submission Post #068.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 - too big ], [ 1 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

07, 28, 38, 40, 43, 48, 49, 51

(Anonymous) 2008-04-23 10:36 pm (UTC)(link)
07. Plz to not be applying your crazy heteronormative stereotypes to our relationships kthnx.

28. Pssht, join the club. All I think about during the homily whenever I get dragged to church is Sephiroth x Zack x Cloud porn.

38. IT TOTALLY WOULD.

40. Canon, schmanon. People can ship what they wanna ship, as long as they can make it make sense. And that one's a lot easier to make make sense than some of the pairings in HP fandom.

43. So you're a Kinsey 5. Whoohoo.

48. I skip them if they have anything to do with RP or fandoms I'm not remotely interested in, but other than that I'll at least skim them.

49. Me too. But only if he were wearing that ridiculous apron.

51. AHAHAHAHAHAHA idiot.

Re: 07, 28, 38, 40, 43, 48, 49, 51

[identity profile] drworm.livejournal.com 2008-04-23 10:40 pm (UTC)(link)
Plz to not be applying your crazy heteronormative stereotypes to our relationships kthnx.

Why not? Everyone else does.

(By which I mean it is just a little ridiculous to claim that heteronormative culture is not an influence on gay relationships and culture, at all.)

Re: 07, 28, 38, 40, 43, 48, 49, 51

(Anonymous) 2008-04-23 10:46 pm (UTC)(link)
(By which I mean it is just a little ridiculous to claim that heteronormative culture is not an influence on gay relationships and culture, at all.)

I know; God, do I ever know, having had to deal with the butch/femme thing so freakin' much. I just wish people would realize that there ARE exceptions -- the way this secret is worded makes me think the OP doesn't, and that's what set me off.

Re: 07, 28, 38, 40, 43, 48, 49, 51

[identity profile] drworm.livejournal.com 2008-04-23 10:58 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah, I know that the assumptions about butch/femme roles can be highly frustrating. It's funny, but the more I think about it, the more I think there are a lot of cultural... threads, I guess, that are coming together to make that secret. There's the basic heteronormativity in culture that tends to minimize or fails to depict heterosexual men as being out of control sexually (and maximizes men taking control of women and relationships). Then there's the hetero assumption that gay couples will follow the heterosexual cultural models. And then you have the (young) queer backlash, fully active in this post, which in the last couple of decades has tried to minimize stuff like butch/femme and promote a less "heterosexualized" idea of gay relationships.

I don't know where these thoughts are going, really, but it just struck me that there are a lot of layers to trying to think about this. :/

Re: 07, 28, 38, 40, 43, 48, 49, 51

[identity profile] onnaevilsmith.livejournal.com 2008-04-23 11:03 pm (UTC)(link)
49. Wow, thanks for reading my mind. XD