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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-11-22 07:21 pm

[ SECRET POST #3611 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3611 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Mass Effect]


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[Once Upon a Time]


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(Overwatch, John McCain)


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[Arrow]


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[Carrie Fisher, Harrison Ford]


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[Supergirl]


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[The Graham Norton Show]








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Re: Thanksgiving

(Anonymous) 2016-11-23 03:37 am (UTC)(link)
Meeting a friend for dinner and a movie the day after. It's meant to be my consolation prize because he made plans almost a month ago (that he only remembered last Friday) to get Thanksgiving dinner at a restaurant with a different friend, and I'm very definitely Not Invited.

What pisses me off is that all three of us live alone, and we have a long-standing tradition of getting Thanksgiving dinner together. But this time around, not only did he make plans with this other person weeks ago, but at Other Friend's insistence, the plans specifically excluded me.

Re: Thanksgiving

(Anonymous) 2016-11-23 03:40 am (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry about your situation, by the way, it sounds intensely frustrating.

Re: Thanksgiving

(Anonymous) 2016-11-23 04:27 am (UTC)(link)
Damn.. that's kind of cold, OP. I'm not sure I wouldn't re-evaluate those friendships if I were you.

I mean, friend #2 is being super dickish for insistently excluding you, but friend #1 seems a little bit avoidant in letting you know he was excluding you (for whatever the reason is) by 'forgetting'? he had those plans.

I mean, maybe there's a reason why they want to dine without you, but if it's somewhat of a tradition that you go out together, a conversation seems like it be nice to have...

Re: Thanksgiving

(Anonymous) 2016-11-23 05:34 am (UTC)(link)
Apparently, Friend #1 honestly did forget. Last Thursday, he said "We really should discuss Thanksgiving plans," so we did, and came up with a couple of options to run by Friend #2. But the next day, Friend #2 reminded him that they had already made plans. He thought they had left the whole thing up in the air, but Friend #2 insists that they made hard-and-fast plans for just the two of them.

I've talked to Friend #1 since my post, and it's really understandable, because last time I was late. (I had forgotten this; Friend #1 reminded me.) Friend #2 is diabetic and has to eat on a schedule, so didn't want to risk my flaking on them again.