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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-11-27 03:39 pm

[ SECRET POST #3616 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3616 ⌋

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Re: repeat, I guess

(Anonymous) 2016-11-28 01:05 am (UTC)(link)
Nooo, you're reminding me of my gossipy friend when at a friend's wedding. She spent the whole time badmouthing other people's outfits. Which...weren't that bad? Sure they're not super high class high tea fancy outfits but they'd clearly dressed up in whatever their finest already-owned dresses were so what's the big deal? It's not like any of us, including her, were making big bucks. They look nice, the bride looks nice, everybody is happy WHY ARE YOU BITCHING ABOUT THEIR CLOTHES TO ME STOP RUINING THE ATMOSPHERE

*judging my judgy ex-friend*
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Re: repeat, I guess

[personal profile] diet_poison 2016-11-28 05:21 pm (UTC)(link)
Man, that's really obnoxious! Not really what I'm talking about though. First of all gossiping about someone else's clothes at the wedding is rude and awful. But I also think wearing something like camo is another thing entirely. Everyone owns something that's not camo. I'd be really disappointed if someone showed up at my wedding in camo or something similarly sloppy (and again, talking about my wedding, not someone else's). If it were someone who genuinely could not afford any formal clothes and they were a close enough friend of myself or the groom that we wanted them at the wedding, I'd honestly budget in a little bit to buy them something nice to wear.

I guess I feel that formal occasions should be formal and I'd feel really disrespected if someone showed up at my wedding dressed like that. If someone else had a wedding that was super casual that is 100% fine, and I'd wear blue jeans if that's what they wanted. And if I was at someone's wedding and thought someone else was dressed poorly I certainly wouldn't talk about it there, that's just juvenile.