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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-12-08 07:01 pm

[ SECRET POST #3627 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3627 ⌋

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Re: Freedom of speech

[personal profile] feotakahari 2016-12-09 12:56 am (UTC)(link)
They tell you this in kindergarten, and like a lot of things they say in kindergarten, it's not just bullshit, it's actively harmful. If you think that no one else can make you feel like shit, you can't fully recognize when other people do make you feel like shit. Instead of resolving or escaping the situation, you conclude that you must be making yourself feel like shit, and when ordering yourself to stop feeling things doesn't work, you make yourself feel even shittier over your supposed lack of self-control.

Re: Freedom of speech

(Anonymous) 2016-12-09 12:57 am (UTC)(link)
OK, enjoy your victimhood.
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Re: Freedom of speech

[personal profile] feotakahari 2016-12-09 01:02 am (UTC)(link)
I certainly didn't. I was such a goddamn mess that if a door opened and I didn't know who was opening it, I would run out of the room in terror. I didn't get better until I got the fuck out of that situation, for the same reason you don't get better from burns by standing in a burning building.

Re: Freedom of speech

(Anonymous) 2016-12-09 01:06 am (UTC)(link)
Getting out of abusive situations is a necessity for one's mental health.

Surely you're not comparing that sort of terror to being disagreed with.