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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2008-04-26 05:39 pm

[ SECRET POST #477 ]


⌈ Secret Post #477 ⌋

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Thirty Three

[identity profile] bad-luck-bird.livejournal.com 2008-04-27 08:40 am (UTC)(link)
33. I'm still trying to get your message. I tend to be a bit scatter brained so don't take this as a flame, just trying to understand, ya dig? Essentially you're upset at people in fandom trivalizing your challenges, correct? If this is the case, you may be in the wrong fandom or at least in the wrong group. There are people out there who may not understand but can at least empathize with what you're going through and won't trivalize you for it.

Then again, I could be completely off kilter...

Re: Thirty Three

(Anonymous) 2008-04-28 03:04 am (UTC)(link)
I failed pretty hard at getting it across. I tried a dozen times to find the right wording and I still don't feel like it came out very well.

I'm secure in who I am, I don't really care what people think. It's more that other people feel I should be trivialized by an apparent class of gender-bending people inspired by boy love, as if it should make me angry and feel marginalized. Pointing out to someone that someone else marginalizes them I feel is actually more offensive, because that's saying someone else has that power to do that to me, which I don't feel they do. It sort of proves that these people are still pretty phobic that they want to point out someone else's flaws like that, just to prove that what they think is right. It makes me feel as if they would be ready to do the same to me if it crossed their minds that I didn't meet their criteria as a transsexual. Basically, I think there are people who are being big fat hypocrites about the whole thing, and I was trying to nicely say that people ought to think about it more or lay off. I dunno.

Re: Thirty Three

[identity profile] akai_senshi.livejournal.com 2008-04-28 07:48 pm (UTC)(link)
It's not like that at all.

Believe me, most of the people who are upset at the gender-bending BL fangirls are transsexuals, because they (or at least I) feel like they have no idea what it is they're going through.

They just know that OMG I'M AN UKE SO KAWAII!!11!, and I would hate for them to actually get hormones or surgery, only to regret it later.