[ SECRET POST #3629 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3629 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Reign of Fire]


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[Pitch]


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[Dan and Phil]


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[Dirk Gently's holistic Detective agency]


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[Project Runway]


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[Voltron: Legendary Defenders]


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[Yuri!!! On Ice]


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[Star Trek: Deep Space Nine]











Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 62 secrets from Secret Submission Post #519.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ], [ 1 - random picture of this lady ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

Re: Super judgey rant incoming

[(Anonymous)]

First of all, I have never once said this is a disaster for anyone, so either you've got your anons crossed or you're projecting hard. Frankly, I'm leaning toward the second, because for as "bored" as you say you are, you're pretty gung-ho about attributing all sorts of over the top emotions and statements to me that I haven't actually said.

Second of all, this is nothing like an adoption, you ridiculous child. Grandma isn't exiting baby's life once mom gets her act together. Barring some kind of tragedy, Grandma's there to stay and lives close by. And whether you want to accept it or not, for at least part of this child's life Grandma is going to be a co-parent to this child and there will be a definite transition if/when her daughter completely takes over parenting. The baby is going to look for grandma. The baby is going to cry for grandma to come pick them up. And when mom comes and picks them up instead, the baby is going to be upset. No, that's not permanent. It's not even that damaging to the baby. But it's going to be very hard on the mom when this happens and when it keeps happening for weeks and weeks until the baby adjusts, and it's something that she's not thinking about now because the baby isn't real yet. You aren't helping anyone by insisting that there are no consequences to voluntarily removing yourself from 2/3 of your child's life.

Re: Super judgey rant incoming

[(Anonymous)]

You're being borderline psychotic over this. It's a few months, your "friend" is making the best choice she can to set them up to be successful in the longrun. You're concern-trolling because nobody is giving you the hugbox you apparently need.

Grow up.

Re: Super judgey rant incoming

[(Anonymous)]

Like I replied to otakugal, I haven't actually been commenting in this thread except to clarify points. The person you're replying to isn't actually me.

-OP

Re: Super judgey rant incoming

[(Anonymous)]

There are about 4 or 5 anons here I think. A shouty anon, "frustrated and sad" anon, Finnish anon, OP and maybe some more I don't know. Some anons have replied to my conversations and it looks like me.

Re: Super judgey rant incoming

[(Anonymous)]

AYRT (not me by the way): *calmly stating facts about child psychology* You: "you're borderline psychotic!" Are you five? No-one can be this self-absorbed and obtuse.