case: (Default)
Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-12-13 06:36 pm

[ SECRET POST #3632 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3632 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

01.



__________________________________________________



02.


__________________________________________________



03.


__________________________________________________



04.


__________________________________________________



05.


__________________________________________________



06.


__________________________________________________



07.


__________________________________________________



08.


__________________________________________________



09.












Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 27 secrets from Secret Submission Post #519.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: Complaints desk

(Anonymous) 2016-12-14 05:33 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm a mother who bonded big time (the whole attachment deal) and I also happen to know a lot of people who went back to work etc. right after having a child because it made more sense in their respective lives at that point. Plus, babies mostly don't care whether their birth mother cares for them or someone else, and the strongest emotional attachment happens when they're about 8-14 months, not at the newborn stage.
I'm also totally for everyone breastfeeding (almost 3 years, in my case) but, like I said, sometimes it makes more sense in peoples' lives the other way. Babies are different. Lives are different. There's no "the one way", and finishing college is something that will probably benefit the child long term so it's a viable option.