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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-12-24 04:08 pm

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(Anonymous) 2016-12-24 09:46 pm (UTC)(link)
I just learned that my grandmother died an hour ago. we were supposed to go to her house for Christmas tonight and this is coming out of absolutely nowhere so I'm pretty solidly in shock right now. I mean holy shit, honestly, because my grandfather (on the other side of my family) died just a week ago

I'm having a pretty shitty holiday this year, not gonna lie! what the fuck

(and I don't really feel comfortable talking to friends about this because I don't want to ruin any of their holidays. I'm really not sure what to do right now)

(Anonymous) 2016-12-24 09:49 pm (UTC)(link)
Damn. I'm so sorry.
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[personal profile] morieris 2016-12-24 09:53 pm (UTC)(link)
Goodness, I'm sorry.

[personal profile] herpymcderp 2016-12-24 09:54 pm (UTC)(link)
That sucks, OP.

(Anonymous) 2016-12-24 09:58 pm (UTC)(link)
I am so sorry, anon. *hugs* I wish I could tell you what to do and all, but when I lost my grandma, I just went through the motions of school and work in a fog until one of my friends started talking about how her grandma makes the best cookies and I just started sobbing because I'd never be able to taste her cooking again. Just take your time and be kind to yourself.

(Anonymous) 2016-12-24 10:00 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm so sorry anon.

And re: talking to friends, I don't think anyone will care when you've experienced death in your family If someone called me on a holiday because someone had died, I would be more then happy to be there for them.

If you still feel bad imposing, just take a day. You don't need to do anything right now, just take care of yourself.
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[personal profile] philstar22 2016-12-24 10:04 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh god, I'm so sorry. Sending all the internet hugs and prayers your way.

(Anonymous) 2016-12-24 10:07 pm (UTC)(link)
That's awful, twice over even. My condolences.
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[personal profile] thewakokid 2016-12-24 10:09 pm (UTC)(link)
Shit, man. Sorry to hear that. Hope the hurt fades quickly for you.
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[personal profile] skeletal_history 2016-12-24 10:30 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm so sorry, that's really tough. Please feel free to keep posting here if it makes you feel better.
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[personal profile] cakemage 2016-12-24 11:20 pm (UTC)(link)
*hugs* I'm sorry for your loss.
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[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2016-12-25 12:38 am (UTC)(link)
I'm so sorry for your loss :(

m grandpa died on December 30th, so I know how - on top of everything else - it's just a shitty time to lose someone and/or find support. Id say DO talk to friends, though...

(Anonymous) 2016-12-25 02:32 am (UTC)(link)
I'm so sorry, Anon.

Deaths during the holidays are the worst.

Sometimes I swear pets and people in my family drop like flies right around Christmas.

Please take care of yourself, Anon. Don't hold in the grief. Get mad. Cry. Yell. You have a right to your feelings.
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[personal profile] soldatsasha 2016-12-25 05:07 am (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry to hear that. I know what you mean about not wanting to ruin people's holidays. It's a difficult thing to find the balance to.

*hugs* if you want.
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[personal profile] caerbannog 2016-12-25 05:58 am (UTC)(link)
Oh I'm so sorry :(
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[personal profile] sadiesockmonkey 2016-12-25 06:29 am (UTC)(link)
I am so sorry, Anon. That's awful.

I hope your grandmother and your grandfather are resting in peace and that you & your family manage to have as happy of a holiday as you can despite this. <3

(Anonymous) 2016-12-25 07:34 am (UTC)(link)
I'm so sorry. That sucks.