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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2008-05-01 05:48 pm

[ SECRET POST #482 ]


⌈ Secret Post #482 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 62 secrets from Secret Submission Post #069.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 2 3 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 2 3 4 - too big ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

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[identity profile] oceanica.livejournal.com 2008-05-01 10:20 pm (UTC)(link)
50. Frankly, I'd say the "shitty, offensive attitude about love and romance" connected with shipping Sakura and either one of the boys is the idea that one-sided stalkerish obsession (either Sakura's toward Sasuke or Naruto's toward Sakura) is or can lead to a healthy romantic relationship. Apparently in their world, no doesn't mean no, it means "ask me again five thousand times!" or something.

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[identity profile] paperclipchains.livejournal.com 2008-05-01 10:54 pm (UTC)(link)
I think the stalkerish obsession is mostly supposed to be for comic relief, and the real problem is people who take it too seriously to begin with.

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[identity profile] penguinfaery.livejournal.com 2008-05-01 11:25 pm (UTC)(link)
Even if it's for comic relief for us, it's still how they act in the series, which is the only thing to go off of. Even if it's in amusing/cute way that say, a guy is obsessing over you...he's still obsessing over you.

And I'm sorry some of, specifically Sakura's obsession (though I'm sure Naruto has his fair share, he's more built up for laughs), is in remarkably unfunny part (Unless we're suppose to lol all over when Sasuke's leaving the village, or when she thought Kakashi had killed him, or any of the other times she shows it in very serious situations)

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(Anonymous) 2008-05-01 11:42 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you for proving my point :)

"Love can only EVER lead to a 'healthy' romantic relationship if it starts off in a way that I approve of, and anyone who says otherwise is STUPID!"

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[identity profile] oceanica.livejournal.com 2008-05-01 11:47 pm (UTC)(link)
You know what? I'm not even going to argue with you. If that's the standpoint you're coming from, then there's no point in trying to educate you about how actual real-world romance works.

Go ahead, try and pull a Sakura on a real-life human being. Have fun with your restraining order.

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(Anonymous) 2008-05-02 12:25 am (UTC)(link)
So...because I happen to enjoy a relationship in fiction, I obviously believe it's the standard for healthy relationships in real life and will try to emulate it?

You have a pretty fucked-up attitude towards shipping.

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[identity profile] penguinfaery.livejournal.com 2008-05-02 11:41 pm (UTC)(link)
I'd like to point out, if you are the secret maker (Or either way, since it's the secret in question) it specifically refers to "Shitty, offensive attitude....about love and relationships in general."

So the quality of the relationship was brought up specifically in what she was referring to. And if you think having a relationship based on such a heavy crush is EVER a good thing, you've never been in one. (That doesn't mean it CAN'T be done well, but it means it's a rocky place to start from)