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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2017-01-16 06:31 pm

[ SECRET POST #3666 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3666 ⌋

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Re: Whatever happened to ______ ?

(Anonymous) 2017-01-17 01:28 pm (UTC)(link)
This pleases me. In the sense that he always seemed like a douche to me and you seemed cool, so I'm glad you're in a good place now. Sorry you had to go through that to get there though.
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The dude seriously is and more.

[personal profile] chardmonster 2017-01-17 09:16 pm (UTC)(link)
Hey, thanks. That means a lot.

But yeah, he's a jerk. Example: complained about condoms, so we went without! I was cool with this because I thought he was a good guy and we were in a committed relationship. I was on the pill so it was fine!

No, it was not fine. He was screwing other women so often he thought I should be comforted that he occasionally tried to be faithful for like two months at a time! But it's okay, he took STD tests (that I am supposed to actually believe he took for some reason)! So I should be okay with this!

Do you have any idea how fucking humiliating it is to take an STD test when you thought you were totally safe? There's no shame in STD tests, everyone should get them, but thinking someone cared about you and then having to do that? Not cool.

PSA: If a guy seems creepy and the only way to get over the feeling is to keep telling yourself you're being unreasonable and mean, listen to your instincts instead.

Please keep in mind, this wasn't just me. He was lying to multiple women in at least two states, and using his relationship as part of the lie. If he tries to pick you up, don't trust him. Don't trust what he says his current girlfriend is okay with unless you actually talk to her. And then, do not under any circumstances pursue any kind of emotional relationship. He cares more about being A Helper than actually helping you. He doesn't really care about sexual partners past the tip of his you know what, and he knows to go after people who are vulnerable.
Edited 2017-01-17 21:30 (UTC)