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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2017-02-06 06:30 pm

[ SECRET POST #3687 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3687 ⌋

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Re: PET PEEVES

(Anonymous) 2017-02-07 01:38 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, that's definitely annoying. I'm asexual and am not sure where I am romantically (sometimes I think bi, sometimes I think aromantic, I don't know...it's weird), but because I've only dated the opposite sex, people assume I'm straight. My mom especially insists I'm straight although I've told her I'd be willing to date girls. (The reason I haven't is that of the girls I've had feelings for in the past, they were either straight, or there was one who admitted she had feelings for me, but came from a super conservative religious family and ended up marrying a so-called 'ex-gay' guy to please her family and be 'normal.') My mom said that if I were to actually date a girl she'd consider me bi, but that until then it doesn't count since I've only dated guys in the past.

People in the LGBT+ community understand that obviously you can know you're bi without actually having dated someone of the same sex, but like you said, it's like the asexual part disqualifies you from really fitting in.

It's frustrating.