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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2017-02-06 06:30 pm

[ SECRET POST #3687 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3687 ⌋

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Re: Is being turned on supposed to be a good feeling?

[personal profile] a_potato 2017-02-07 02:41 am (UTC)(link)
It does, but my understanding is that there are asexual people who don't feel any kind of arousal at all. I'm not sure whether I think that's...wrong. Unusual, maybe, sure.

I don't know. I think I may be operating in the space between wanting to respect someone and recognizing something as potentially being a problem.

Re: Is being turned on supposed to be a good feeling?

(Anonymous) 2017-02-07 03:23 am (UTC)(link)
As someone who considers themselves somewhere on the ace spectrum, to me it's more like, I find things attractive, I enjoy masturbation and orgasming, I just... don't want to touch someone else's bits or have them touch mine?

It's one of the reasons I hesitate to call myself asexual usually because people have defined it so rigidly (in my experience) that I feel like I'm doing it wrong.

I don't find the idea of sex gross or wrong or scary, it's just not something I feel interested in.

Re: Is being turned on supposed to be a good feeling?

(Anonymous) 2017-02-07 01:22 pm (UTC)(link)
Which is frustrating because that is exactly what being asexual is. No interest in sex. It annoys me to no end that the internet has twisted it into this extreme versions, when it's pretty simple.