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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2017-02-22 06:37 pm

[ SECRET POST #3703 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3703 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2017-02-23 02:58 am (UTC)(link)
But, you have no idea if that this isn't "some kind of power play." And you have no idea that this guy hasn't compromised or tried a dozen different things specifically because OP asked him to, and has decided to finally stand up for himself or something. There are two sides to every story, after all.

I agree. There are two sides. And I agree that I don't know for sure that this isn't some kind of power play. But why would I assume it was? I mean, at the very least, I'd say the odds that you're scenario is accurate are fifty-fifty even with the odds that it isn't, and that OP just wants to share a little bit of one of her favorite things with her BF.

So I choose to give OP the benefit of the doubt and you choose not to give OP the benefit of the doubt. We're both making assumptions based on incomplete information.

However, In my personal experience, "I don't understand your interests, find them silly, and therefore will not indulge you" is a lot more common reaction between people than "You did everything else right but you wouldn't share every one of my interests to I'm breaking up with you." The latter is, as you say, a bit nuts. Which is precisely why it seems less likely than the former, which I see all the time, and have experienced a few times myself.