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fandomsecrets2008-05-12 06:13 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2008-05-12 06:13 pm
[ SECRET POST #493 ]
⌈ Secret Post #493 ⌋
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
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Notes:
Secrets Left to Post: 14 pages, 332 secrets from Secret Submission Post #071.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 - broken links ], [ 1 2 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 2 3 - too big ], [ 1 - repeat ], [ 1 - posted twice ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
06, 15, 16, 18, 31
15. That's just the cutest thing ever. <3
16. I KNOW THIS IS YOOOOU. I KNOW IT. >:D
18. Dammit bitch, make me a copy! XD *swats at you*
31. Don't blame yourself, don't don't don't. It's a terrible thing, honey, but it isn't your fault. I feel really bad because I know what a terrible situation you must be in... but there's no way of knowing when internet wank goes from "catty fun" to "crossing the line" in other people's minds, and you can't hold yourself responsible for something he did. If he was in a place where he was willing to take his own life, this wasn't going to change things. If none of that business ever happened at all -- he probably would have been just as depressed and unhappy with life. He made the decision to end things, and left everyone else shocked and horrified. I'm certain that you're not the only person feeling like you could have done things differently. His friends, his enemies, people who were indifferent to him, people who ignored him, classmates, coworkers, family members and loved ones. I'm sure that every one of them was struck and affected and all questioned themselves. The heart of the matter is that he was fundamentally unwell, and chose to kill himself. It's a tragedy that he didn't get help and a sad thing for the people who cared about him -- but it's not your fault. No one thing made him do it. But that being said, it's never too late to reevaluate the way you treat people. If you feel bad that you may have treated him unkindly (wether he deserved it or not) don't let it eat you up inside. Rather, channel those negative feelings into trying to be nicer, kinder and more accepting in the future. It's never too late to give someone else a *GOOD* day. in closing -- you're not a bad person. Your remorse shows a humanity and an empathy. *hug*
Re: 18
(Anonymous) 2008-05-12 10:48 pm (UTC)(link)Re: 18