[ SECRET POST #3716 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3716 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Shitty thoughts thread

[mrs_don_draper]

If someone is going to start crying over losing a tumblr follower, then it's a good idea to get out. Seriously, you'd have to be a nutcase to (a) know someone unfollowed you, (b) track down who unfollowed you, and (c) cry about it to an IRL person.

Re: Shitty thoughts thread

[diet_poison]

You're being really judgy and pushy for someone who doesn't know anon's actual situation very well. Maybe let them make their own decisions?

Re: Shitty thoughts thread

[mrs_don_draper]

This isn't the first time or the first site where I've seen people complaining about easily avoidable situations, and I'm honestly just tired of it. If I seem judgey and pushy, it's intentional.

Re: Shitty thoughts thread

[diet_poison]

haha...okay...yikes.

Your pushy judgmentalness isn't going to save anyone, it's just obnoxious and makes you look like an asshole. If you don't like their complaining, scroll on.

Re: Shitty thoughts thread

[(Anonymous)]

Wow, nutcase? Really?

I use friend or follow to check if a mutual has unfollowed me. It's free and easy to use--and someone like the op is worried about probably uses that. And it tells you which blogs you follow that don't follow you, mutuals and fans (blogs which follow you but you don't follow) and does so in a matter of minutes, so it doesn't really take that much. I don't care if non-mutuals unfollow me, I unfollow blogs all the time. But if a mutual unfollows me, then, I'll unfollow them.

And just because YOU think tumblr is a joke, doesn't mean everybody else does. You're a bit of jerk for being so dismissive about this, especially as there is possible RL fall out for op. Although I will say I'm not surprised....

Re: Shitty thoughts thread

[mrs_don_draper]

I use friend or follow to check if a mutual has unfollowed me. It's free and easy to use--and someone like the op is worried about probably uses that. And it tells you which blogs you follow that don't follow you, mutuals and fans (blogs which follow you but you don't follow) and does so in a matter of minutes, so it doesn't really take that much. I don't care if non-mutuals unfollow me, I unfollow blogs all the time. But if a mutual unfollows me, then, I'll unfollow them.

That is incredibly neurotic.

Re: Shitty thoughts thread

[(Anonymous)]

Oh fuck off no it's not.

Re: Shitty thoughts thread

[(Anonymous)]

I notice when people unfollow me on both tumblr and instagram. I'm not obsessively watching my numbers, but they're low enough that a loss of one (or a gain of one) is noticeable. Really not that unusual to notice those types of things.

It just sounds like you don't really understand Human Emotions and how people work.

Re: Shitty thoughts thread

[mrs_don_draper]

You're right. I'm actually a robot.

Re: Shitty thoughts thread

[(Anonymous)]

Not a robot, just a troll ass.

Re: Shitty thoughts thread

[mrs_don_draper]

I'm not trolling. If I was trolling, I'd go on anon. I just think everyone is taking this tumblr follower thing WAY too fucking seriously.

Re: Shitty thoughts thread

[(Anonymous)]

jfc you are so fucking abrasive. If you do actually have anxiety, I'm shocked you can't understand that it manifests differently in different people and it's not something you just "get over" and "deal with."

Re: Shitty thoughts thread

[tabaqui]

I think you're being unnecessarily harsh when someone said it gave them anxiety.

HOWEVER.

I agree 100 percent on the 'i don't give a fuck'. I have no clue if/when people follow *or* unfollow/friend or unfriend me on LJ or DW or FB or Tumblr. I'm not even sure how you check without actively hunting them down, and wow, I don't care.

I am also very tired of people making mountains out of mole-hills, but since my daughter has pretty bad anxiety over stuff that's no big to me, I don't get up in her (or other people's) faces about it if that's the issue.

But plain old drama-llama, GTFO.

Re: Shitty thoughts thread

[mrs_don_draper]

You're right. I respect the anxiety angle of it, but I'm so tired of people welcoming drama into their lives!

Re: Shitty thoughts thread

[tabaqui]

Me, too. Someone on my LJ flist posted tonight about a situation with family, and their is a very simple and easy solution to avoiding stress and unhappiness, but i just *know* they'll have a reason to be all 'oh, no, i could never!'

Bah.

Re: Shitty thoughts thread

[(Anonymous)]

Robots don't go out of their way to be dicks to strangers on the internet. You leave them out of this.

Re: Shitty thoughts thread

[(Anonymous)]

Lol, +1