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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2017-04-01 04:25 pm

[ SECRET POST #3741 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3741 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2017-04-02 01:02 am (UTC)(link)
It seems a little extreme to call making fun of someone's name 'abuse' especially when said name is not exactly aligned w axes of oppression

(Anonymous) 2017-04-02 01:07 am (UTC)(link)
OP doesn't seem to think so. Oh I know! Let's invalidate him/her!!

(Anonymous) 2017-04-02 01:14 am (UTC)(link)
Actually, OP doesn't imply abuse either. That's all you and only you. But sure, why not co-opt OP's experience to make your own point. That's not invalidating at all!

(Anonymous) 2017-04-02 01:19 am (UTC)(link)
Of course. Don't you have some ultra original name-mangling to do?

(Anonymous) 2017-04-02 01:22 am (UTC)(link)
I don't know. Don't you have someone else's childhood trauma to exploit for personal gain?

(Anonymous) 2017-04-02 01:26 am (UTC)(link)
I'm not the one getting my personal jollies out of mocking somebody else, so that's a question you'll have to ask someone else.

(Anonymous) 2017-04-02 01:33 am (UTC)(link)
No, you're the one shitting all over OP's perfectly legitimate critique of said mockery by turning it into a farce. Frankly, you owe OP an apology for hijacking their childhood to draw attention to yourself.

(Anonymous) 2017-04-02 01:38 am (UTC)(link)
Funny how you're pointer fingers at me for turning anything in to a farce, while the name-mangling jokesters are walking scott-free. Like I said before, I'm sure you have some name-mangling to do, for Great Social Justice, or whatever bs excuse you dig out. Now fly fly fly.

(Anonymous) 2017-04-02 01:46 am (UTC)(link)
The name-manglers didn't drag OP into this. You did. You are the only person in this entire thread who tried to use their unhappy experience to score points. If you don't understand why that's a bad thing, then there's really no hope for you. But if you do understand, even a little, why that is a terrible thing to do to someone, then you will stop making an ass of yourself. If you have even the slightest shred of empathy for other people, you will apologize to OP for exploiting them to further your drama, and you'll think twice before you do something like that again.

Of course, that would mean that you actually have some shred of empathy for other people beyond what makes you sound cool to your tumblr peeps. Personally, I don't think you have it in you.

(Anonymous) 2017-04-02 08:58 am (UTC)(link)
NA You're both so cool I'm in awe.

OP

(Anonymous) 2017-04-02 09:17 am (UTC)(link)
Well, it was definitely verbal abuse in my case. People can tell themselves it's just innocently making fun of someone's name haha, but the hurt feelings are real. Benedict Cumberbatch might be cool or indifferent with it by now, but I'm not there yet. Being constantly reminded of how my really normal boring name was mangled throughout my school/student years is not fun.