Someone disabled: but because I am often treated, both in fiction and real life, as less than a person, something rather than someone. And it's why I'm wary of a lot of fictional lesbians because oftentimes they're fap fodder so to find out someone treats me as a fetish is... Disturbing. Imagine there was a thread talking all about how they liked someone with your hair or eye color and you were used to that being something used to objectify you or treat you as less than human all the damn time. That's why actual disabled people find this gross and disgusting.

Scream all you want about fiction/reality divide, but I've never met someone who had a disability kink who didn't treat disabled people as less than human in real life, too.