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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2017-04-08 03:40 pm

[ SECRET POST #3748 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3748 ⌋

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Re: Sexiest disabilities in fiction

(Anonymous) 2017-04-08 11:44 pm (UTC)(link)
Someone disabled: but because I am often treated, both in fiction and real life, as less than a person, something rather than someone. And it's why I'm wary of a lot of fictional lesbians because oftentimes they're fap fodder so to find out someone treats me as a fetish is... Disturbing. Imagine there was a thread talking all about how they liked someone with your hair or eye color and you were used to that being something used to objectify you or treat you as less than human all the damn time. That's why actual disabled people find this gross and disgusting.

Scream all you want about fiction/reality divide, but I've never met someone who had a disability kink who didn't treat disabled people as less than human in real life, too.

Re: Sexiest disabilities in fiction

(Anonymous) 2017-04-08 11:51 pm (UTC)(link)
Then just ignore the thread? That is what people who are triggered by rape do when there is a thread about that in fandom.

Re: Sexiest disabilities in fiction

(Anonymous) 2017-04-08 11:51 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you. I have trouble articulating that but you pretty much nailed how I feel too.

- anon who hasn't commented on this thread yet who also has a disability

Re: Sexiest disabilities in fiction

(Anonymous) 2017-04-08 11:57 pm (UTC)(link)
But the fiction/reality divide is worth screaming about because it is as huge and vast as any other.

I 100% buy that every person with a real life disability kink has been a creeper. All the ones I have met have been the same.

However, a fictional disability kink doesn't mean you have a real life disability kink and that's like, enormously important.

Re: Sexiest disabilities in fiction

(Anonymous) 2017-04-09 02:29 am (UTC)(link)
I have literally never met someone who hasn't dehumanized me when I mentioned how uncomfortable disability kink with fictional characters made me and to please stop talking to me about it in my presence, but that they could do so when I wasn't around. Never. I've instead been berated and demanded of why I didn't accept that someone "actually found me hot for once."

Re: Sexiest disabilities in fiction

(Anonymous) 2017-04-09 03:06 am (UTC)(link)
That's honestly terrible and the people around you sound terrible but I assure you that isn't all the people in the world.