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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2017-04-20 06:34 pm

[ SECRET POST #3760 ]


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Re: Question for fellow bi or pan people

(Anonymous) 2017-04-20 11:34 pm (UTC)(link)
Bi girl here.

I don't think what you're attracted to can be helped. If androgynous people don't do it for you, fine. Anyone who thinks you Need To Be Attracted To This Kind Of Person is being obnoxious and infringing on your agency. There would only be a problem if you were actively against androgynous people being considered attractive.

The more I think about my "type," the more I realize I don't really have one. I like dark-haired people with excellent noses, but not exclusively.

I agree with you on the paradox of the male gaze. I find myself stupidly turned on by some things, but then feeling ashamed that I would be turned on by something so... brutish, I guess? Whatever the male gaze is, it's not delicate. I don't like being made to objectify girls the way men tend to do. It's invasive, almost rapey.