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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2017-04-26 07:16 pm

[ SECRET POST #3766 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3766 ⌋

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Re: Work/Friendship/Romace Advice

(Anonymous) 2017-04-27 02:24 am (UTC)(link)
Sounds a bit weird, tbh. It'd be one thing if he asked if you wanted to meet for lunch and catch up, but after work sounds a bit more serious unless it's in a group. It's not uncommon for an older guy to badly misinterpret this sort of relationship so it's entirely possible he's convinced himself that there's more to this than being work buddies. He may have started to romanticize the relationship in his head and frankly, having a wife and kid can be stressors that make this fantasy MORE (not less!) likely.

If you feel even the slightest bit odd about it, don't go. Also, don't flirt with co-workers because the reward just isn't worth the potential mess.