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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2017-04-27 06:44 pm

[ SECRET POST #3767 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3767 ⌋

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Re: "After marriage, my life ended!"

(Anonymous) 2017-04-27 11:15 pm (UTC)(link)
I've been married awhile (20+ years). And when one is married, one can't always jump up and go do something on a moment's notice, one has a partner to consider. You CAN actually see your friends outside of a couples-only setting, but single folk do tend to stick together and married folk tend to do the same, and married folk with kids do it too. You in no way "stop living" (and really, if you don't feel that marriage is for you then you shouldn't get married, but please don't imply that life stops when you do, lmao....You sound like people who love to tell childless folk how empty and bereft of "real love" their lives are because they don't have kids). Bottom line is, marriage is what you make of it. You can still do all the stuff you did when you were single (with one or two exceptions unless you've got an open marriage). It's just that you're with another person now who is your spouse, and that person needs to be considered.
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Re: "After marriage, my life ended!"

[personal profile] soldatsasha 2017-04-27 11:27 pm (UTC)(link)
when one is married, one can't always jump up and go do something on a moment's notice, one has a partner to consider.

This was my thoughts exactly. Life doesn't 'end' it just changes. Just like having a pet means you can't go fuck off to Maui for three weeks without hiring a pet sitter, being married means you should probably consult with your spouse before you blow your paycheck on partying with your friends.

Re: "After marriage, my life ended!"

(Anonymous) 2017-04-27 11:39 pm (UTC)(link)
Yes, exactly. Things take more planning because you have someone else's schedule and feelings to take into consideration - as it should be. It's not a complete dealbreaker in terms of socializing, but it makes it a little trickier and maybe less spontaneous.