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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2017-05-07 02:49 pm

[ SECRET POST #3777 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3777 ⌋

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OP

(Anonymous) 2017-05-07 09:25 pm (UTC)(link)
Nah, I never fake it. He's very aware of it and I've really tried to teach him, but it's never worked and always ends with him feeling frustrated/inadequate. Then I feel bad for making him feel bad, lol.

Re: OP

(Anonymous) 2017-05-07 09:40 pm (UTC)(link)
That's a shame, but a common problem when one partner has difficulty with orgasming during sex. Unfortunately, the fact that it's feeding into his sense of inadequacy is going to be a major obstacle to managing the problem. If you're sure this guy is worth salvaging, I'd keep trying to have an open line of communication about this but it's going to be a real hassle to both deal with your own issues AND have to babysit his ego. And if he's not willing to overcome his own sense of embarrassment and keep trying, it will be impossible. I'm sorry.
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Re: OP

[personal profile] chibifier 2017-05-07 09:50 pm (UTC)(link)
turn it around and try edging and orgasm denial. works for me, and after not coming for a week I'm horny enough to insist on him assisting me with masturbation after sex.